Spirit Fodder
Thursday, February 17, 2005
Why are you without a relationship?
Taken from Astroved:-
There are many reasons for this question. I can at least think of many reasons:
01. You are not good looking, the other sex does not want you
02. You are fat
03. You are old
04. You belong to an ethnic group that is not well respected
05. You are not accomplished or well mannered
06. You have no job or money
07. You do not know how to attract
08. You are short tempered and cannot keep a relationship
09. You are self centred and do not care for the other person
10. You come from a dysfunctional family in which your father and mother constantly fought
11. You have a strong belief that relationships will never work
12. Deep down you think that it is better to be single than being in a relationship
13. You do not want a relationship because you do not want to be hurt
The above list is by no means exhaustive. I can probably add a dozen or more reasons to the list.
But I want to give a spiritual reason for having or not having a relationship.
Basically relationship is karmic.
You simply do not meet someone by accident. Relationship is always a continuation through many lifetimes. Two people come together to complete an unfinished relationship from previous lifetimes. You stay together until the karma is done. Once it is done, you break up or divorce. This is what happens spiritually in a relationship.
You may ask, what about people who do not have a relationship? Do they not have karma to meet a man or a woman? Yes they do, but they are not exercising that karma. Perhaps they came here to feel the life of being single. Perhaps they had been a monk or a nun and enjoyed loneliness and that karma is continuing.
I must tell you that I am not interested in giving you more reasons as to why you are single or why you are not able to create a relationship. I can help you to create a new relationship for yourself.
Yes, you must have karma for it, but do you not realize that you have already had inexhaustible karmic relationships that you have had in millions of lifetimes? You simply need to pull someone from your karmic bank.
Tuesday, February 15, 2005
How Patricea Relates to Other People
Venus Sextile Saturn with an orb of less than 1 degree
While you may not be emotionally demonstrative or sentimental, you love deeply, lastingly and loyally. You may be strongly drawn to people either much older or much younger than you are. Love, for you, has always entailed an enormous amount of responsibility.
Sun Sesquiquadrate Neptune with an orb of less than 1 degree
Your father was either over-idealized or he was rejected as a role model. Either way, your concept of what a man should be is not based upon a mortal person, but upon an ideal. This may lead to unrealistic expectations in close personal relationships.
Mercury Conjunct Saturn with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
You are a serious person and inclined to be somewhat inflexible in your thinking. Since you tend to be rather judgmental, you could only be happy with someone who is in philosophical agreement with you and conceptualises the world as you do. Sometimes you are rather taciturn.
Venus Opposition Neptune with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
Love for you is often a "divine discontent". You are so romantic and idealistic it is difficult for any mortal person to sustain your interest without disappointing you. Your need to idealize loved ones may make you susceptible to illusion.
Sun Sextile Mars with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
You are assertive without being overly aggressive and usually go after what you want with confidence and enthusiasm. You enjoy sex and your partners tend to be dynamic, successful people. Your natural energy and moxie is usually sexually interesting to others.
Mercury Sextile Venus with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
You are creative and charming. You speak well, live well and are fond of people who have taste, wit, good manners and share your aesthetic interests. Your emotional ties must also be on your intellectual level or your interest will soon begin to wane.
Mercury Sextile Jupiter with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
You have a quality people trust and you are often sought after as a confidante or an advisor. You have high moral and ethical standards and it is imperative that anyone you're close to is a person of the highest integrity. You prefer well-educated people.
'Relationship'
"Relationship" is fundamental to human life. It is because man is a social animal. You will be terribly bored if you are alone.We are not born to be lonely.
I am not against loneliness. In fact, it is the best that can happen to anyone, if one understands it and experiences the bliss in loneliness.
Unfortunately, this is not the reality of most people.
Everyone wants relationships of some sort with the individuals or groups that they deal with. But then there are challenges in every relationship.
~ Taken off Astroved
