Spirit Fodder
Thursday, February 17, 2005
Why are you without a relationship?
Taken from Astroved:-
There are many reasons for this question. I can at least think of many reasons:
01. You are not good looking, the other sex does not want you
02. You are fat
03. You are old
04. You belong to an ethnic group that is not well respected
05. You are not accomplished or well mannered
06. You have no job or money
07. You do not know how to attract
08. You are short tempered and cannot keep a relationship
09. You are self centred and do not care for the other person
10. You come from a dysfunctional family in which your father and mother constantly fought
11. You have a strong belief that relationships will never work
12. Deep down you think that it is better to be single than being in a relationship
13. You do not want a relationship because you do not want to be hurt
The above list is by no means exhaustive. I can probably add a dozen or more reasons to the list.
But I want to give a spiritual reason for having or not having a relationship.
Basically relationship is karmic.
You simply do not meet someone by accident. Relationship is always a continuation through many lifetimes. Two people come together to complete an unfinished relationship from previous lifetimes. You stay together until the karma is done. Once it is done, you break up or divorce. This is what happens spiritually in a relationship.
You may ask, what about people who do not have a relationship? Do they not have karma to meet a man or a woman? Yes they do, but they are not exercising that karma. Perhaps they came here to feel the life of being single. Perhaps they had been a monk or a nun and enjoyed loneliness and that karma is continuing.
I must tell you that I am not interested in giving you more reasons as to why you are single or why you are not able to create a relationship. I can help you to create a new relationship for yourself.
Yes, you must have karma for it, but do you not realize that you have already had inexhaustible karmic relationships that you have had in millions of lifetimes? You simply need to pull someone from your karmic bank.
